Moving forward, I’ve come to the understanding that I need to work on myself before allowing anything in. Working on myself will allow the greatest woman to come into my life and bless me. Maybe its her, but right now it we are not for each other. Me. Thats what I’m working on. Being a better me, will allow me to be the greatest man, for this greater woman…whoever she happens to be. Of course, I’ll be living as any man should but I’m more concerned with the sensible.
Does her views align with mine? Is she willing to accept love and let go of baggage? Is she open to being open, with me? Are we willing to do whatever it takes to make it to forever? Are we both willing to forgive? Are you over shit that is not conducive to a healthy relationship? If we both are able to answer these questions, I know she’s for me. I’m over looking for this cookie cutter image of her, well the old her. Maybe that was my problem when I was searching. I’m looking for someone who can meet me at least half way and then work with me to the top. Whatever happens, our souls will always be tied to each other. Its just a matter of maneuvering around it, until whatever is to come. If we are meant to be, she will be the one who I get down on bended knee for. If not, she will be the one supporting me from the shadows. The crossing of our souls was not accidental, but for now the distance will make us grow. Rule #7 : love yourself. everything falls in love after this. take time and work on yourself. Invest everything that you can in making your happiness as concrete as possible. Invest in branding yourself and creating a life that establishes longevity, for yourself!
2 Comments
Kwame
12/23/2017 09:53:23 pm
Powerful🌍
Reply
Miyuko
12/25/2017 04:34:26 am
This comes to me like a sweet brise upon tears. It dried its and soothen. Just like Sade - Mermaid
Reply
Leave a Reply. |
A'maara L.A Guide to Blk Love Archives
May 2020
Categories |